“What are you really accomplishing here? Why are you trying to do all this alone while everyone stands around you from morning till evening?”
Jethro gave his son-in-law Moses some great advice. Jethro arrives on the scene and find Moses sitting and listening to disputes among the people. From morning till night he was a judge, a mediator, and not getting much done because he was only focused on that task. (Deut 18) Moses was meant to be a leader, not sit and listen to complaints all day. So Jethro tells Moses to get out there and find some men to help him with this task.
We block the funnel of ministry at the top sometimes. We get in the way of others getting in there and rolling up their sleeves and serving. How do we block the funnel?
We think we know the best way to do it. Maybe you do. Maybe someone has a better way and more efficient and it would allow them to express their gift and allow you to focus on what God has created you to do. Maybe they won’t do it just like you but in the end they get it done.
We think we work best alone. No! Ministry is always better together. Never serve alone, always serve with others. People want to serve they just need to be given the opportunity.
We think that only we can do the task. Really? You don’t think there is someone else in the body of Christ who can come up with new decorations for the stage? You don’t think there is someone else that could write the small group discussion questions? You don’t think there is someone else that can go grocery store and then prepare the food for youth group? I love that phrase, “Do what you do best and delegate the rest.”
We think we have to come up with all the ideas. I sat last night with ministry leaders from our church and listened to their dreams for Nags Head Church. They had some great ideas! Let others dream, let others come up with ideas. Eventually our brains get stale and new ideas from others can spark great ministry ideas.
We micro manage. Turn the church loose to serve and don’t constantly tell them how to do their ministry. Yes, train and equip them. Yes, give input when asked. Please step in if something they are doing will cause physical spiritual injury. Other than that step back and enjoy watching people use their gifts.
Do you see the pattern. As leaders we sometimes block the funnel of ministry and then wonder why people aren’t serving. We can have control or growth but can’t have both. I want to see growth more than I want to control everything. Growth comes when the church gets to serve and do the ministry.
What are we really accomplishing here? Why are we trying to do all this alone while the church stands around morning to evening waiting for an opportunity to experience the joy of serving?
Let’s agree to not block the funnel and get in the way of people serving.
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